Seeking Permission to Leave Academia

diary of a phd Feb 15, 2024

Leaving academia is a decision filled with a mix of emotions. When I made the decision to leave, I felt this lingering sense of seeking permission within me, especially from my supervisor. Although I left academia over a month ago, there is still a subtle yearning for validation - permission to embrace the path I've chosen and to openly express my thoughts on platforms like LinkedIn. 

Seeking cues of approval  

It's fascinating to me how the dynamics of the student-supervisor relationship plays an important role in this struggle for permission. The transition from academia to industry can feel like one has disappointed peers and your supervisor. As I planned my transition, I found myself subconsciously seeking cues of approval from my supervisor. I looked for moments of support in pursuing my next goals outside of academia. Afterall, I did not want to disappoint those who had invested in my academic success. 

Overcoming the need for permission  

 What helped me in the transition without explicit permission was a mental shift:  

  1. I needed to follow my passion. I convinced myself that success would naturally follow when I did something I loved. I am a firm believer that the essence of thriving lies in doing what brings you joy and fulfillment. 
  2. I needed to do what’s best for me. Independent of the judgment that I felt I needed to do what makes me happy. At the end you only got one life. 
  3. Realizing the only person who needs to give you approval is YOU! 

Moving out of my comfort zone  

To overcome the need for permission I challenged myself to share experiences from my academic journey on platforms like LinkedIn, even when I feared judgment. A turning point was realizing that the world continued to spin, unaffected by my posts. I remind myself daily that growth happens outside the comfort zone. So everything that feels uncomfortable is good. 

 In the end, I discovered that the journey from academia to business was not only about skills and mindset shift but also about liberating oneself from the perceived need for permission. Do you feel the same way? If so, think about it what is the worst thing that can happen? 

 

Elena 

 

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